I am the Mom of a wonderful daughter who is a Sophmore in high school.. Her boyfriend is away in his freshman year at college..He previously had dated another girl that still goes to school with my daughter.. I will call her "cindy". Cindy has been talking to her friends and her and them have been making my daughter's life a nightmare. They pass her in the hall and make remarks and Cindy just this past week actually confronted my daughter in the hall and asked HER what HER problem was. Cindy is the one that broke up with the young man my daughter is seeing.
This week is homecoming and her bf.. who I will call "Larry" drove 3 hours home last night to suprise her a day early. They went to the game tonight and sat in the students section, only to come to me at halftime, with her upset to tell me that they wer leaving. When i asked her why, all she would say was "cindy and her friends". After he drove in 3 hours, I thought that they would go on out any way. By the time I got home, she was in the bed and her bf had gone home. What a waste. The dance is tomorrow night and I know that these people are going to try to ruin it.. I tell her that she has "won".. She has him.. NOT her.. and they he wants to make this long distance relationship work. My daughter don't want Larry to talk to Cindy, for fear that it will get blown out of context and they school will not let him return for dances and such.
The one friend that is causing the most trouble was recused by my son 3 years ago from 2 boys that were pickin on her. Now she is the one that is doing it back. I hate the high school drama.. It makes me crazy. As her mom, I want to tear into both of them. Going to the officials at school won't work.. 2 reasons there. one.. they don't care and 2 is the thing about banning him because of the issues..
I know alot of you on here are younger.. I can use some help with ideas. My son is about ready to drive an hour back from college and "settle" it!! He is very protective of his little sister and I know that he would end up in trouble.
I could use any advice here.. Larry is home, we have spend alot of money for them to have a special night at the dance. I really don't want her coming home in tears.
I try to tell her to ignore them, but I know that is hard to do..
Can i hear from some of you on this.. sorry to drop this on here.. I am just kinda at a loss.. you guys are great!!!!!!!!!!!! Linda